Relationships can be really hard to end. You will try to hold on tight to the good memories you both had no matter how few they may be. You are in a constant law court in your heart trying to defend and keep the relationship but your mind keeps telling you it’s time to move on.
Now you have decided to seek and external and neutral body who would help settle the case. So welcome to LoversBud courtroom, today we will help you decide at what point you should end a relationship.
13 Signs that tell you when to end a relationship
The listed signs below signify that a relationship is over and when to end the relationship.
1. It starts feeling more like a cage than a relationship:
Relationships should never feel like a cage or limitation. Yes, relationships have certain restrictions like no cheating and never hurt your partner intentionally. But even in these restrictions, it should never feel like a cage.
Because of those two restrictions, there are so many other added benefits it gives you that you can’t get by being single.
Things like being love, companionship, sex, an exclusive person that the whole world can only admire but never get. Also, it gives you a safety net to fall into when it seems like the world is against you.
So if you still feel caged after having all these then you are in the wrong relationship or you need to get your act straight.
2. You derive no joy from the relationship:
Joy and happiness is an essential part of every relationship. It’s because of our need to find happiness that we enter into relationships. When the joy becomes too low and you start getting irritated whenever you think about the relationship, then it’s time for the relationship to come to an end.
3. Love is dead:
This is the biggest and most notable sign that tells you when a relationship should end. Love is the binding force that keeps a relationship going and gives you the passion and desire to fight for a relationship. But if there is no more love in the relationship then it’s time to move on.
4. Hurting your relationship with other important people in your life:
You would know it’s time to end a relationship when it begins to damage other valuable relationships you have with other important people.
Some relationship becomes so toxic that it starts killing your relationship with others and that is a bad sign. Especially when it starts separating you from a loving family or friends who have been your ride or die before you started dating the person.
5. When the relationship starts hurting you emotionally:
I have seen firsthand how bad things can get when a relationship starts hurting someone emotionally and mentally.
So I strongly recommend you end a relationship before it damages you to a point it would affect you throughout your life. That’s how baggage is formed and you will carry it with you to other relationships and into damage someone else.
If you do take hard drugs then you should never stay in such a relationship because it can cause you to overdose and cost you your life if you keep staying in such a relationship.