It’s actually cool that you want to learn more about first kiss before going for yours. The idea is to learn from the experience of others, so you can be better and not make a complete fool out of yourself.
In this post, I will be narrating my own first kiss experience and how a good first kiss can actually get your special someone to date you if you guys ain’t already in a relationship. So sit back, relax and read to the end.
My personal first kiss experience
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It’s been almost a year since I started wooing the most incredible girl I have ever met. She is different from any other girl I know. It wasn’t love at first sight but I can swear that what I feel for her is stronger than that.
She has finally started opening up to me and started to show interest in me. So I released it was time to do what I have always wanted to do from the first day I told her these sacred words “I LOVE YOU”. It was time I have my first kiss. It was also her first kiss, though I didn’t know this at the time.
I really had no solid plan on how to kiss her, other than to kiss her once I get the chance.
One day, I paid her a surprise visit, we stayed out as I refused to go into her house because her sisters were there. We talked for a while. In my mind, I was running through a lot of “What if’s”. I wanted to kiss her badly, but I was scared of her reaction. I also didn’t know how to make the first move.
So I came up with a brilliant plan, that I would kiss her when she is about to see me off, in the staircase. Hoping that if it goes bad, I can just go straight home and bury my head in my pillow for days.
The time had finally arrived, we were at the stairs heading down when I told her she owed me a kiss and as I read her expression, I released she wanted it too, so I went right for it. DAMN:), it was the most amazing thing I had ever done. The most amazing feeling ever. I wish I could pause time as my lips were connected to hers.
Shortly after that, we started dating and we are still in a relationship till this very day. She is my inspiration for this blog.
How to get your first kiss
If you just want to get your first kiss, you could just walk up to the guy or girl, lean forward fast enough and kiss her/him. But if you really like like this person or even love the person and you don’t want to get rejected, then you should first start by reading this other post How to Ask a Girl Out – With 85% chances of getting a YES
If you have followed the steps in those posts, it now means you are already in the mind of your crush and you can be 90% assured that you won’t get flat out rejection. So it’s time to go for the kiss.
The truth is, you don’t need any extra mojo to kiss the person. All you need is the courage to take make the move. For those extremely romantic persons, you can hatch a cool romantic plan like, dinner and a kiss afterward, or you could get the person a romantic gift or surprise and kiss the person at that point they are surprised.
But if you can’t do all that because of money or other constraints, you can just do what I did. Pick the perfect time and go for the kiss.
Getting the perfect time for your first kiss
I just said, “Pick the perfect time and go for the kiss”. But is there really anything like the perfect time for the first kiss? Many will argue that there is nothing like the perfect time for the first kiss. But the truth is, there is a perfect time for it.
You can’t expect a guy who is running to the hospital because he got a call that his mother is dying to kiss you. Or expect to kiss a girl from a strict home in front of her dad without receiving a hot slap.
Now, let’s talk about the perfect time for your first kiss. It’s actually based on the person in question, so I can’t give you a definite time because every human is different. But what I can tell you is, it’s generally best when the person is calm and relaxed. It works every time. So, be the judge of that. Pick a time you know is right, and kiss him/her.
It is important to note that, if you don’t have the courage to make the move, you will NEVER get your first kiss. Unless someone else gets the courage to kiss you first and am guessing you do not want to wait that long. So you HAVE to be ready to take the chance when the opportunity presents itself.
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First time kissing tips
Here are some tips that will surely help you with your first kiss.
- Ensure you don’t have bad breath. It will be very embarrassing.
- Don’t be a chicken when the time comes, A kiss won’t kill you.
- The person doesn’t have to say they like/love you first, just make sure they don’t hate you
- Be yourself. It’s important that you do not try to change everything about you or lie just to get the person.
- If you can’t find the perfect time, create the perfect time.
After The Kiss, What Next?
Hopefully, you have successfully kissed the person. Now, what next? Well, it’s entirely up to you. But I am guessing you would definitely want to date the one who you had your first kiss with.
So you can either ask the person out there and then, or wait for a while before asking him/her out. For the ladies who can’t ask a guy out, you will just have to wait for him to do the asking. And if he is a bit slow, you can speed things up by giving him clear hints.
If the kiss went great or you weren’t rejected, then you have a very high chance that the person will accept to date you.
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Good luck, I wish you success. You can send me a mail about how it went through this email [email protected] or leave a comment below.